You will never keep people happy, so don't even involve their personal opinion in your personal relationship. Then one day we met up again, and she told me that she would love to date me but she cant because of what shes done. Knew what she was doing and what she wanted. I am not a gossiper. I forgot to mention that she failed her entire first year as well. All you hate on this girl for sleeping around, but we don't hate on you for probably being inexperienced and not as sexually skilled or confident so cut her a break! Just curious becasue i think now it may sound good but down the road you will only regret it.
With a young, inexperienced teenager, the woman usually becomes the centre of his world-she'll love this because she craves that attention. So I met a really nice girl awhile ago, she's near perfect. It just seems that you need a good girl. A rich guy can lose his money; a pretty girl her looks. When you meet your friends tell them about the good things your girlfriend have such as attitudes, achievements etc. There are numerous couples out there where the woman is older. At times I think that 6 years is such a small age gap and that my worries are incredibly immature and nonsensical.
You cannot beat her over the head for something she cannot change. If you have an issue with her as a person, it's perfectly fine not to date her, but the fact that she happens to be a few years older than you isn't a real reason. Society is strange like that; however, I think she's good for you. How come you men always seem to think you have the right to be years older and only that will make a relationship perfect or work? That said, Myspace is hardly a relevant source of verifiable personal information. We come back and a couple of weeks into the school year i see her, my feelings are still strong but im trying to push her out of mind. She's a gem and rare to find! She also looks about 10 years younger than she is, and people are always amazed that she's older than me. I am completely lost right now, but I do not regret our time together.
We occasionally see each other outside of c. She loves her job, and that shows me that I can accomplish the same things that make my life fun. I was kinda curious as to what you guys thought about younger guys dating older girls. A marriage based on such eternal values will conquer just about anything. I think she can only add to my life.
Thats not a little bit creepy at all. You guys have been together and, from the sound of it, happy for five years! Should I continue with this relation as I really love her very much. Maybe in your head you think it's the only girl i am able to get? It doesn't matter what your family thinks or feels they do aren't marrying her you are. At say 18, someone who is 21 is obviously a big gap in a lot of ways. You mean: she should be crazy to get married to you! But since you're obviously insecure find another girl who will put up with your shit, she deserves way better. Do you think it will pose a problem? I have taken great pride in myself in being the same with everyone I know.
During this time she had sex with a female friend of ours, she partied every weekend, and she failed 2 very simple college classes due to her irresponsibility. You both experienced different things as you grew up. In the end it should all be worth it if he is the one. Please check out our to request being added to our calendar. My problem arises because my brain knows that she isnt wrong for enjoying other men but at the same time your heart hurts from the thought of it. Although the fact that she keeps coming back to you definitely shows insecurity on her part.
Although I'm also into younger girls and girls the same age as me so. I'd say look at the bigger picture. She may not recognize it herself, but she coercing and manipulating you-because your fascination with her will feed her sense of value. You want a more mature girl. I would rather have a kid when I am 35 and have the money to support it than suffer and my child not have everything they need because I rushed into something I wasnot prepared for. My girlfriend has always been a lot less mature than me, and I think that stems from the fact that she lived a very sheltered life. First it was sites like Myspace, and facebook, now its games!?! We always think we know what we want when actually circumstances tend to change those thoughts.
She's making much more than me and way ahead in life. My gf is 7 years older than me with multiple degrees, while I'm still struggling with my first. I routinely date men ten years younger. Not that I don't see it already. When i met her i learned that she had a boyfriend of three years back in her home country in the Caribbean, so out of respect i began putting my feelings aside. What are your actual, specific concerns? I am 42yr old women.
Well considering I'm 23 and I hit on almost all good looking 40+ year old women that come into the grocery store I work in, I don't see anything wrong with it. If you truly love her and she loves you u back dont think about friends much. We are also in the same place career wise, and we both discussed wanting to have kids in about 3 years from now. You want a more mature girl. I got it from wowbash. If you still feel unsure of your intentions, seek additional counsel from your trusted friends and family members.