I have herpes but my boyfriend doesn t. My boyfriend just confessed he has herpes and we want to get married and have a baby 2019-01-26

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How Can My Boyfriend Have Herpes But Not Me?

i have herpes but my boyfriend doesn t

I'm close to it anyway but if he didn't I don't want to jump the gun. But if you had herpes or were at risk for it, your doctor would usually prescribe antiviral meds to help suppress the virus 3 months before or at the time of the birth or do a C-section if warranted. But as far as shedding, I have herpes and I have no idea if I'm shedding or not. Also call and check on your herpes testing and find out for sure what test can back + for herpes and see if they typed it. If you do, wash your hands with soap and water. This is is good news for him.

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Did I contract herpes from my boyfriend?

i have herpes but my boyfriend doesn t

Taking Suppressive Therapy such as Valtrex can reduce the number of days of shedding the virus by 50%. Your first outbreak will be the worst yeah. Even if you have never had any symptoms, you should immediately ask your doctor to give you a. Even if you were and tested negative then, it's impossible to know who gave it to you since that time, as your first outbreak did not occur within a week of sexual contact, which is what typically happens. Of all the available mainstream tests, it needs to be the IgG test, not IgM, not anything else. Well this last time we did oral and had sex.


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why did i test positive and my partner didn't?

i have herpes but my boyfriend doesn t

He's been with other woman since and even they didn't get it. That is because herpes stigma is a form of prejudice. For most people, it is not a big deal. Last night he felt a rash the same place he had it before, he hadn´t told me anything because he thought it had dissappeared completely. Hope I got all of those answered.

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My Partner Gave Me Herpes

i have herpes but my boyfriend doesn t

I had the IgG test done and of course I was positive. Has your new partner just informed you that he or she has herpes? And could my doctor just say i have herpes becase she reall doesnt know what i have? That way you can avoid either one of you doing anything you'll regret in the heat of the moment. Either that, or your various partners tested using the wrong test. Many people are symptom-free at first. In many people, herpes doesn't cause any symptoms, which is why it's so common. Hi I'm not to sure how to use these things so I just jumped on someone's conversation but I'm pretty sure I've been exposed to herpes type 2, I had sex with some guy I knew months ago in May 2016 and his Ex-gf messaged me after saying they have herpes; he denied it and I thought she was just crazy and wanted me to stay away from him but anyways I thought I was having an outbreak last Thursday cause there was bumps in the inside that aren't usually there but they weren't painful just itchy so I finally went and got my blood drawn on Thursday and today I got a vaginal exam she said the exam looked perfectly fine it was all in my head but then told me they tested my blood as if I was an 84 year old so the test was inaccuracte and can not be used but the test came back for my blood being an 84 year old it was postitive for type 1 and 2.

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My Partner Just Told Me They Have Herpes. I Don’t. Now What?

i have herpes but my boyfriend doesn t

Any extra insight, knowledge, or previous experience would be appreciated on this subject matter. You may also find other answers in the. These both have helped with the discomfort. Journalists who mention my fictional boyfriend make me safer than the woman who fucks whoever she wants. But i just feel so gross and ashamed and im scared to give him anything as i read u can still transmit it to someone even if u use a condom and take the meds.


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I found out I had HSV2 and my boyfriend couldn’t have been more supportive. : Herpes

i have herpes but my boyfriend doesn t

If I have herpes, but my partner and I use a condom, is it still possible for my partner to get it? And I have had clean paps yearly since then. Being so sick with a weekend immune system can trigger it. This is the difficult part my doctor said their is no way to find out when and believes I could of had it in my system for longer. Only the swab should be positive for now. What kind of test was done on you? If this is not the way-pls let me know how to. I also have a very high index value, but using a different test kit. We sat down and had a talk about all of this.

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why did i test positive and my partner didn't?

i have herpes but my boyfriend doesn t

He only found out he had it after being tested for it. And the days we choose not to do the deed makes us long for each other more and in return have a great one when we do it. That is not exactly accurate, if so. And sorry for who ever post I kind of took over I'm really sorry!! And herpes to a baby with none of Mom's antibodies is serious. Only a health care provider can diagnose herpes by performing a physical exam and tests. Abt 1 month Before my current bf i was being a littke reckless sexually, well not in a crazy way but i had unprotected sex. Herpes also introduces a new fear into even the best relationships: the chess piece that is the risk of transmission.

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My Partner Just Told Me They Have Herpes. I Don’t. Now What?

i have herpes but my boyfriend doesn t

I have been diagnosed with hsv 2 last week, my partner tested negative. But what really made me okay, what made me turn herpes into more than just a livable reality but even a strength, was talking about it. I'm assuming you kissed him on the mouth as well, so who knows which end you got it from, if you even have it! Thank you very much in advanced excuse any grammer mistakes English is not my first language xx How did your doctor confirm that you have herpes? I'm going crazy and my boyfriend hates my guts right now:' cause I probably gave him herpes now too. So did they cheat on you? A herpes outbreak can be very uncomfortable or even painful, featuring ulcers in the genital area that can take weeks to heal. Warning signs may include a burning, itching, or tingling feeling on the genitals or around the mouth. People can feel that way about bodies as a whole, too. Please consider contacting a or discussing your situation with a local counseling professional whom you trust.


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My boyfriend was diagnosed with genital herpes. What should I do?

i have herpes but my boyfriend doesn t

Sometimes individuals who have the virus never experience an outbreak at all. Maybe allergic reaction so I didn't go to the doc till today. We had unprotected sex a couple of times during our first 3 months but then we broke up afterwards for about 2 months. If you are viral shedding and have skin to skin contact or sex then your new partner can contract herpes. As for why you are consistently negative, the most obvious answer is that you don't have herpes, but some other issue. Your local , many other health centers that test for sexually transmitted diseases, private health care providers, and health departments offer herpes tests and herpes treatments.

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I tested positive but my partner tested negative for herpes.

i have herpes but my boyfriend doesn t

Condoms during sex or dental dams during oral sex may not prevent all cases of herpes. We both looked and he commented it looked like genital herpes! Have you ever had oral? You should also do the same IgG test as him at or around the same time. I also had bronchitis when I was pregnant with my son who is 24 and they said since I couldn't take medicine and had it for 3 months that it would always be in my system. Is it possible that i might have had an allergic reaction to something i used down there when i shaved? If that is true there is no way i could have herpes because another guy i had unprotected sex with doent have herpes or gonorrhea. So far, he has no symptoms, but he doesn't let it bother him that he probably either has it or will eventually. I however, have only encountered shunning and the revelation of my diagnosis always is uncomfortable silence, followed by complete separation and end not only of romantic, but also any friendship. Visual diagnoses are prone to error.

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